The first signs of libido: what makes men aroused and advice for girls

Females and males have different anatomical structures. The basic physiological processes are the same, but some are much faster in men. From what a man is aroused and how the erection mechanism occurs - it is important to know a sexual partner to increase interest in himself and improve sex life.

A woman stimulates a man

Mechanism of male stimulation

Erection is the erect state of the penis when the male body is ready to intercourse. The mechanism itself is due to the accumulation of arterial blood in the cavernous bodies of the penis, so the organ increases in size, changes the angle of inclination, and becomes firm.

Flow during sexual stimulation increases blood supply by 10-20 times.

Simultaneously with an increase in blood flow, there is contraction of the transverse muscles of the perineum and prostate gland, as well as contraction of the muscles of the penile base.
During an erection, the penis increases in volume 3-4 times and reaches a length of 14-18 cm, which is regulated by the nerve centers of the brain and the lower part of the spinal cord.

Erectile reactions can be divided into several categories:

  1. Mental response. It occurs due to the effects of auditory, auditory or visual stimuli. Nerve impulses send signals to the parts of the brain responsible for the physiological response of the penis.
  2. Erectile reflex. This is an automatic response that occurs due to the stimulation of the penis. Sensory stimuli affect the nerve ends of the penis, as well as the rectum and bladder.
  3. Spontaneous erection. It occurs without conscious control, in most cases at night.

Sometimes there is a morning euphoria of the penis, caused by erotic dreams, or by an overflow of the bladder, which is a physiological norm. In young people, night-time erections can occur 3-6 times per night, when a man is sleeping and not even knowing about it. The reflex works even in people with disabilities or in patients with musculoskeletal disorders.

Erection problems occur more often in old age due to concurrent diseases of the genitourinary system.

The man's body is designed so that, after making eye contact with the desired object, imaginary images appear in the man's head, images of future intercourse. This is the first step leading to the appearance of sexual attraction.

The second stage is physical contact. The stimulating effect for men is to caress or touch the genitals and even through clothing. With each step, the penis becomes more erect, increasing in size by 2-3 times.

During the penetration of the penis into the vagina, this organ increases, in the process of friction, the sensitivity of the foreskin increases. Ejaculation is the process of ejaculating when the testicles are empty. The last stage of sexual intercourse is ovulation.

A steam bath is the opposite of an erection, when the penis returns to its resting state. After orgasm, the penis becomes limp, the libido disappears due to being satisfied. An erection becomes possible after only 10-15 minutes.


What affects sexual arousal

The reasons that affect a man's well-being can be conditionally divided into the outward and the internal. Visual, even fantasy and bogus, can affect the state of the penis.

Internal factors

Internal factors include physiological reactions. The blood flow to the penis is caused by nerve impulses, the signals the brain give orders to cause an erection and lubricant production.

Internal factors cause sexual arousal:

  1. The work of the central nervous system. There is a message that speeds up blood circulation in the pelvic organs. The foreboding pleasures, the images of future intercourse come to mind.
  2. Testosterone. It is the main male sex hormone. However, it has not been fully proven that it affects libido levels. But the development of the genitourinary system depends on the work of androgens. Testosterone is responsible for the formation of the main male sex characteristics and the processes associated with puberty.
  3. The function of the prostate gland. Having prostatitis, hyperplasia or other prostate problems, decreased libido, risk of impotence.

The health of the male body is the determining factor for the firmness of the penis. When there are metabolic problems (diabetes mellitus), blood circulation, or with the development of mental abnormalities, a symptom such as sluggish energy is observed. If everything is in order with the prostate gland, the hormonal background, and the central nervous system, then the libido will be even at the age of 50.

Testosterone is the main male sex hormone

External factors

There are many techniques to stimulate men. Among the external effects, several groups can be noted: eye contact, taste sensation and sound. Even music can affect an erection.

External effects on libido:

  1. Visual image. This is not only the charm of a woman, but also the turmoil of fantasy. After visual contact with the desired subject in the man's head, images of future sexual intercourse appear, which causes blood flow to the penis.
  2. Taste. Scientists have even proven that certain foods can increase libido levels. These include seafood, garlic, parsley, and even beef. Such food can stimulate nerve impulses and increase blood flow to the genitals.
  3. Smell. Pheromones were a special kind of magic that created certain feelings in a person. Perhaps the partner's scent stimulates at the molecular level, causing the brain system to revive.
  4. Sound. Even music can cause an erection. Among the methods of sound sexual arousal, however, are the voices of a woman talking or moaning. Such pathogens have a mutually beneficial effect.

Among the methods of mechanical arousal, masturbation is masturbation, after direct stimulation, the penis becomes larger and harder. Genital organs are the main genital area of a man. From the efforts of a woman, touching and kissing a man was very exciting.

The attractiveness of a woman is the visual image of awakening a man

Signs of excitement in men

How to understand that a guy is excited - you should pay attention to changes in appearance. By behavior, it is possible to recognize small changes that are a sign of sexual desire.

Aphrodisiac is the human body's response to sexual arousal. Its strength and duration of its existence depend on hormone level, health, genetic predisposition, and anatomical features of the structure.

How to understand that a man is aroused, the first main signs:

  • the heart rate increases, tachycardia may appear;
  • have irregular breathing rhythm;
  • dilated pupils;
  • there is an increase in blood pressure;
  • the tone and tempo of the voice changes;
  • not only the penis strain but other muscle groups;
  • increased salivation;
  • the appearance on the skin of "goosebumps" is observed.

According to all signs, a man's libido is like a manifestation of stress.

The main symptom is erection. How much larger the penis becomes an individual indicator, however, as a rule, the smaller the penis at rest, the bigger it is during an erection.

A change in size is observed not only during sexual arousal but also after an organ is inserted into the vagina. Friction rhythms are another stimulant that contributes to penis enlargement.

To prolong intercourse, it is advisable to pause rhythmic friction to reduce stress. On an erect penis, exudation should not be feared. It is a precursor fluid that plays an important role in fertility.
Pre-sperm can be excreted at the early stages of stimulation as a lubricant, during intercourse and after intercourse.

Passionate man

Myths and prejudices

The arousal process of male and female bodies takes place in completely different ways. There is a lot of sexual speculation on the internet about what interests men. There are many myths, but it is worth dispelling it so that a woman can become the most desired in bed.

What really makes a man become:

  1. Morning wake up. This is not only a psychological effect, but also a physiological one. Around 9 a. m. , representatives of the stronger men will have an uncontrolled erection. That is when the peak of sexual activity occurs. However, there is another factor that makes morning sex desirable - a warm and cozy woman. Sleep hugs comfort and stimulate men's emotions.
  2. Angry woman. There is no scientific explanation for such a fact as irritability and sex. Perhaps when in family relationships are not sharp enough and passionate enough, the spouse deliberately provokes a companion, making her angry. Homosexuality is especially harsh.
  3. Her hair is down. At the same time, certain confusion will add some mystery to the photo. Men like long-haired beauties, because the intuition he sees in a healthy woman is the ideal mother for his baby.
  4. Naturally. Dangerous makeup or an invigorating smoky stone can work, but there's another way. Lack of makeup also makes men become sluggish. This is because it's too heavy - you don't need to eat a lot of cream and lipstick while you kiss.
  5. Men's clothes. A girl wearing a T-shirt several sizes larger becomes more fragile and protective in the eyes of men. Especially if you wear it on your naked body. Plaid shirts are also considered to be the cause of sexual delusions. In the eyes of men, the partner becomes the type of rebel who does not resist the most daring experiments in bed.
  6. A talented girl. You don't have to play the piano professionally or be a talented musician, just choosing an instrument is enough. Men are revealed by semi-nude girls on the piano, guitar, but if you really have talent, you should be more brave to use it. Singing well, playing musical instruments - all are ways to affect a man's erection with the help of sound techniques.
  7. Presence of a small belly. Healthy lifestyle, fitness model and abs are prevailing today. However, most men prefer the soft and large form: loose breasts, wide hips, and small belly. On the contrary, a perfect look can terrify male representatives.
  8. Small wrinkles. It's strange, but the first signs of aging stimulate the libido. This is because the woman has become mature and experienced, she has nothing to be ashamed of when it comes to sex. And the lovely dimples or a pair of "crow's feet" in the corner of the eye make people just want to kiss the face of their loved one. So women shouldn't be sad to see a small mesh on their face, but take advantage of the moment and look for a suitable sexual partner.
  9. Small chest size. Men like small breasts. And it is true. Holders of the fifth size will be disqualified if the chest loses its previous elasticity and shape. Small breasts age much more slowly, do not sag even after breastfeeding, and have an attractive appearance even in women over 40. In addition, men prefer breasts that fit into the hands.
  10. Desire to eat. A hungry woman is only a man's dream. Now all the girls around are obsessed with the diet, which ensures no extra calories. Of course, you shouldn't stuff yourself a big fat hamburger, but don't refuse when a man suggests denser dinner than usual. By trying different dishes and not giving up on different types of alcohol, a woman gives the man a nonverbal signal that she will not draw courage in bed either.
  11. Glasses. In the adult movies, you can often encounter the image of a sexy teacher, ready to work after school. What a nerd, constantly stuffing books - sexual inspiration. One only needs to wear glasses on the bed, as the man's imagination begins to actively work out possible poses.
  12. A languid voice. High-pitched voices cause annoyance. The most glamorous one is Merlin Monroe's voice, from the lower range. A soft whisper over dinner is the chance to pique your partner right at the table. Men don't like loud and scandalous women, as their mental health is lost, so subconsciously he chooses a calm, quiet mate.
  13. Closed clothing. Long dresses with no collars or cascading dresses are ideal for a first date. The image without contact stimulates men's imagination and encourages continued flirting. Also, an overly approachable person wearing a miniskirt would not be the desired target, as it was too easy to win, and the boys liked to play and achieve.
  14. Skin areas do not burn. A very strange fetish that some guys like. At the same time, the line of her undressed underwear looked especially sexy, as if the woman was being exposed even more. Therefore, you should not sunbathe naked, you can leave several areas to use the technique in bed.
  15. Bare feet. They say men like girls in heels - yes, but not as much as without them. Bare feet are a symbol of freedom and freedom. If you take off your shoes while taking an evening walk and continue the barefoot hiking, the date might end up with an enticing offer.

Perfect styling, bright makeup and a miniskirt are a must-see. Mystery, spontaneity and lack of self-control guarantee a woman to win over a guy. To conquer a man, you just need to be yourself.

Lack of makeup and letting loose hair in women excite men

Practical advice

Flirting rules seem simple not to all girls. In sex games, a man can be so aroused that the image of the chosen person will not appear in his mind. You only need to know a few seductive tips to win your partner's heart.

Practical advice for women:

  1. Be proactive. When flirting, try to make eye contact with your guy, making him want to come closer. Show off your arousal and willingness to have sex.
  2. Spontaneity. Don't make plans to have sex, start harassing your boyfriend while watching movies. No man would turn down such an event.
  3. Play. Prove that libido changes you, try on pictures of a libertine or exposure, experiment. Alternatively, you can use different themed outfits in bed.
  4. Laugh. Not when he saw a naked man, but his pranks. Humor is another aphrodisiac that can help boost your libido.
  5. Whisper. Interesting words and phrases that are said to the ear are sometimes added with aphrodisiacs and special medicines.
  6. Moving. An effective safety method fails. Stroking, close touching, and even dancing can cause an erection.
  7. Striptease. Slow undressing was coupled with inviolability, when a man could only see and couldn't touch, burning with passion. Sexual imaginations envision many options for intercourse.
  8. The scent of women. And this is not perfume, but a natural woman's scent. During the sexual process, a girlfriend's aroma can change, a certain type of yeast secreted will attract guys.
  9. Secret. The forbidden fruit has a sweet taste, so sometimes partners cheat on each other. It is worth thinking of a game in which a conqueror's instincts will work against a man, so that he wants to conquer a girl.
  10. Partial nudity. You shouldn't completely undress in front of a guy. Leave room for thought. Guys should have a desire to find out what is behind a silk robe and what is the color of the underwear.

These secrets will help a woman become a tiger in bed, win a man she likes, or restore her previous passions in marriage. Love is the first source of excitement. If a man is in love, then the husband and wife will have no problem with sex.

Humor is a great aphrodisiac that boosts arousal